5 thoughts on “Why do you divorce, these women will get married and get better”
Tricia
First of all, I think it is necessary to get married, and there is no inevitable connection with divorce. However, many people often have this illusion. I have witnessed that someone around them seems to be like this. Although divorce, they are happier than the original, and the other half is better. So, what is the root cause, what will the divorced woman be married better? I think it is such a few factors: 01: Thinking is more mature The fastest way to grow up, the fastest way is constantly frustrating. Women who have experienced failed marriage are like a war without smoke. Regardless of whether it is active or passive, it will make women go through a lot of tests, so as to quickly mature. This maturity is formed by a lot of heartache and grievances. It makes women feel sentimental and slowly become rational and objective. Naturally, it will become more mature in the future. 02: Rich life experience E every stage of life, people and things in contact will precipitate into a life experience. Whether you are happy or painful, you will map in our future life. A failed marriage, who taught women, will definitely have a lot of experience and skills in doing things. Because these experiences were exchanged for the pit over and over again. This allows women to understand more and do things to do things and do not care. Naturally, there will be a lot of unnecessary friction in the next time. 03: I know how to love themselves women are more emotional, especially for the people they love, they also give everything and lose their own. After experiencing the pain again and again, it will allow women to gradually find their good positioning. They began to understand such a truth. Even if they didn’t know how to cherish themselves, how could they let others cherish it? Because of this, divorced women know how to love themselves and run themselves. Began to put part of your energy on your own, constantly improve yourself, and make yourself better and better. Inon that divorce is not the main reason for women to marry well, but women who continue to improve themselves and know how to grasp all the opportunities to make them better must be more likely to make themselves marry better. did you agree with this view? What else do you have better understanding? Let’s leave a message to communicate with me! (the picture is from the Internet, please contact delete if there is any infringement)
Why do you divorce and get married better? because of divorce, but the character and literacy did not leave. Divorce is only an external relationship, and marrying people is because of a kind of quality and inner thing in themselves. I Happiness is not related to one marriage or second marriage. mainly depends on whether the values and personality of both parties match, and whether they can be considerate and tolerant of each other, treat each other as a real lover. Share the story of a friend of my colleague. I let’s describe it in the first person. two years ago, 34 -year -old, in this strange and familiar city, stayed for more than ten years. Nothing, no house, no car, no deposit, only one job that can only be raised, rely on the day after day to work overtime more pocket money. Coincidentally, I met my wife. Frankly speaking, she didn’t look good, but she was a little yellow -faced, and she didn’t repair it. Dressed in simple. At least, my friends don’t think we can live the rest of our lives. I didn’t believe that we would be together at first. . She is an ordinary person who cannot be in ordinary. During the meal, we were next to each other. Her friends accidentally said. Both of you were single, maybe this joke, everyone followed. Talking about everyone, chatting, and drinking a little wine. S singing again after meals. The box was too noisy, and I slipped out, and by the way, the cigarette was smoked. The person who was alone was the most lonely. With the effect of alcohol, my heart was really not smooth. did not expect that she slipped out. Although she knew it, it was still embarrassing. But she opened the mouth first, “Don’t listen to them coaxing, I am a divorced person, how can I match you.” You talked with me a word. Bet about her divorce and also brought her daughter. At that time, he fought with his ex -husband and broke up with his ex -husband. After the marriage, the ex -husband seemed to have become a person, and he was no longer as considerate as before. She worked, her ex -husband was idle at home, and went out to gamble every day. The thought that with the birth of his daughter, with the title of his father, he would make him renewed, but unfortunately, not only did he not restore his husband. Instead, it was intensified and disliked her to give birth to her daughter. I have been selling my daughter to sell it. It may be the nature of a woman, but the mother is strong. When she wants to protect her daughter, when her daughter is two years old, she finally proposed a divorce. The moon that night was particularly round, and then we left contact information with each other. Perhaps it is polite, maybe for sympathy. Occasionally everyone greets each other, contacted each other, all staying in the cold and warm. One day she left a message to me, hoping to let me help. Because the rental house she lives is a residential house, the rent of that one is very cheap, but the crowd is very chaotic. is not as safe as the community. She invited me to help me go to the place where she lived occasionally. This will give the people next to the people. I am happy to help her this little busy, because I have nothing to do with time. Going to her can still get the meal she made. I never cook. Fast food and instant noodles are my life, and my room has no cooking. although her room was very simple, she packed cleanly inside, and it felt neat but not losing home. The rice she made is also delicious. Maybe she hasn’t eaten the rice made at home for a long time, and she feels like eating her mother. This time passed quickly, and in the blink of an eye, the mother was sick at home, and it was already the advanced gastric cancer when it was found out. For so many years, I never knew how much grievances they suffered and how much they were suffered. The first time I felt helpless. At this time, she stepped forward and accompanied me to many hospitals to find a lot of doctors. I know that my mother’s biggest wish is to see me getting married and having children, but I have always been willful, because I am still young, my mother is, dad, I have nothing to worry about. The day before going home, I proposed to her. There was no ceremony, but I went out for a meal. In that small restaurant, I asked her, can we be together? Go home tomorrow, I will buy the tickets for you. It will not be wronged in the future. I know that it is not good at this time. You also know that my mother does not have much time now. I don’t want her to regret it, but I can’t be wronged. If you are willing, let my mother walk happily. She didn’t speak, and after a while, she said, we will go back by train tomorrow. In this way, the two of us began. In her company, the mother died, the child was born, and now we are still together, there is no mountain alliance oath, only every bit in life, I believe we will walk happily, Essence So, the right time meets the right person, maybe it is love. I Happiness is this simple. In the right person, it is likely that you can’t change the wrong self. Welcome to pay attention to the amateur scholar of the WeChat public account of the same name.
Divorce, no matter what causes, is unsatisfactory in life. If your psychology is not strong enough and healthy, you will be trapped in the negative emotions of pain and inferiority, and even make your mentality of men closed and radical. Or you will no longer believe in love because of the failure of marriage, and then play life. and if you can be reborn in Nirvana, divorce will become a valuable experience of your life, which will make you more mature and charming. . “ It back to your question: Why can you get married better? I think you may have done the following three aspects (or the following three steps). It first, completely break. If you take the initiative to divorce and go away, then the first thing you have to do is to accept the fact that the marriage is already disintegrated. You need to completely clean up all the tastes and traces left by your ex -husband in your life. In you can even indulge in your emotions as soon as possible (just finding a man to indulge a man to indulge in the best option, but it is not the best option, and you will definitely regret it. To. How you can’t get out for a while, you must stabilize your mind and transfer the unwilling and angry emotions to a more meaningful thing. In particular, it should be noted: abandoning any idea of trying to recover or revenge, because it is meaningless and harmful to others. It, thorough reflection. After a period of emotional adjustment, you may be able to calm down to examine your problems in the previous marriage. The at this time, what you need to consider is how much your love (family), friendship and self -cultivation account for each of your life. If you put 80%of the attention on the so -called “husband and husband”, then you need to reflect: Where is your self? If you put 80%of your energy on “Enjoy yourself”, then you need to reflect: Why do he love you? Actually, these two problems involve your role in your family? Whether your role has been recognized, appreciated, and respected. Third, thorough rebirth Chomatically reflected, you revised your marriage (family) concept, you re -assigned the proportion of love, friendship, and self -cultivation in your life. You starts to work seriously and interact with friends. In particular, the charging plan that you always want to do and not do (really have no time?). You re -ignited the flames of your heart, the enthusiasm and longing for a better life make you look new from the inside out. The most meaningful thing is that you have a more objective awareness of yourself. You know clearly: what you want most, what you can give each other, what role you will play in the next relationship, and work hard to improve yourself. At this time, you can let go of your hands and feet to find “encounter”, because you will “get better”. Consulting marriage and love issues, welcome to follow WeChat public account: Zhou Xiaopeng Emotional Training Camp WeChat: AIWM-3321
Divorce also has the power to pursue happiness, and women who can marry better and better. This is not to degrade those who have been remarried badly, but objective facts. In round, when she first entered the society, she encountered a man who would be very pleased with her, and the two loved to die. In order to marry him, she did not listen to the persuasion of her parents. She ran to his hometown with him. After she went, she found that she had the problem of marriage. At first, she broke up with her parents, and now she has a bad face to tell misfortunes. I. After she was beaten by her husband again, she ran home with some money, and she couldn’t stand it. After seeing her bruises on her, her parents cried straight, and she lived in her mother’s house. Her husband found it, and his parents just asked him to divorce. After divorce, she found a man with his son as a husband. The discipline of her child as her own, but her husband was distressed and did not allow her to say that the child was not. In the communication between two people, she knew that her husband just wanted her to treat her son as a biological love without her discipline. After a year of stumbling year, she settled her mentality. Although she couldn’t do it, she was done as a stepmother’s ability to do what others thought. Now she remarried for 5 years and gave birth to a daughter, and she lived happily with her husband. Life is realistic. Don’t have too high expectations for others, correct your mentality, your thoughts must match your strength, don’t delusional who will share your misfortune. The relationship between people is mutually mutual, and the rituals are exchanged. If you pay, you will harvest.
渐 In this era of divorce, more and more women have divorced around. When love is reshuffled, it is good enough, and of course it will “get married and better.” Today, society, advocating women’s independence, equality between men and women, and a wide range of cognition. The ability to withstand is a lot high. Divorce is indeed a major trauma for them, but there are really many people who regain love. The two female classmates were in Zhang Luo’s second marriage some time ago, and married a boy who had never had a history of marriage, and now it seems that she “gets better and better.” Of course, after I also met someone I knew, I couldn’t find the marriage I wanted again, so I was so lonely. Slowly, it is found that those girls who get married and get better after divorce have a few common characteristics. The first, once divorced, it is particularly thorough. Once divorced, it is thoroughly divorced. Adjust your emotions as soon as possible not to waste time and find your own direction. , after divorce, make yourself more beautiful. After a particularly big heart trauma, many people will feel that they can’t live this hurdle, don’t care about themselves, and have no intention to make themselves beautiful. But I found that those women who can find themselves after divorce are really getting better and better. This stage is the best stage to show personal charm. Use some time to learn makeup, beauty, practice yoga, and study, which can not only improve personal cultivation, but also have a new circle of friends. It can also make life more fulfilling. After a long time, I gradually walked out of the haze, optimistic, and faced every day happily, and began to have confidence to do what I like. Slowly find his Ruyi Langjun. Third, after divorce, you understand the various things of life deeper. Because of the baptism of suffering, I have a re -understanding of the next marriage. Marriage is not dependent, not to pin his life on another person. Everyone is an independent individual, and it is necessary to maintain an independent personality in marriage, support each other, and grow together to grow together for a long time. So it is not surprising that they quickly found Ruyi Langjun, because they were all charming women in life, but the previous lover was not suitable, so when love re -reshuffle, they were good enough, of course, of course, of course, of course, of course It will “get married better”. N
First of all, I think it is necessary to get married, and there is no inevitable connection with divorce. However, many people often have this illusion. I have witnessed that someone around them seems to be like this. Although divorce, they are happier than the original, and the other half is better.
So, what is the root cause, what will the divorced woman be married better? I think it is such a few factors:
01: Thinking is more mature
The fastest way to grow up, the fastest way is constantly frustrating. Women who have experienced failed marriage are like a war without smoke. Regardless of whether it is active or passive, it will make women go through a lot of tests, so as to quickly mature. This maturity is formed by a lot of heartache and grievances. It makes women feel sentimental and slowly become rational and objective. Naturally, it will become more mature in the future.
02: Rich life experience
E every stage of life, people and things in contact will precipitate into a life experience. Whether you are happy or painful, you will map in our future life. A failed marriage, who taught women, will definitely have a lot of experience and skills in doing things. Because these experiences were exchanged for the pit over and over again. This allows women to understand more and do things to do things and do not care. Naturally, there will be a lot of unnecessary friction in the next time.
03: I know how to love themselves
women are more emotional, especially for the people they love, they also give everything and lose their own. After experiencing the pain again and again, it will allow women to gradually find their good positioning. They began to understand such a truth. Even if they didn’t know how to cherish themselves, how could they let others cherish it? Because of this, divorced women know how to love themselves and run themselves. Began to put part of your energy on your own, constantly improve yourself, and make yourself better and better.
Inon that divorce is not the main reason for women to marry well, but women who continue to improve themselves and know how to grasp all the opportunities to make them better must be more likely to make themselves marry better.
did you agree with this view? What else do you have better understanding? Let’s leave a message to communicate with me!
(the picture is from the Internet, please contact delete if there is any infringement)
Why do you divorce and get married better?
because of divorce, but the character and literacy did not leave.
Divorce is only an external relationship, and marrying people is because of a kind of quality and inner thing in themselves.
I Happiness is not related to one marriage or second marriage.
mainly depends on whether the values and personality of both parties match, and whether they can be considerate and tolerant of each other, treat each other as a real lover.
Share the story of a friend of my colleague.
I let’s describe it in the first person.
two years ago, 34 -year -old, in this strange and familiar city, stayed for more than ten years. Nothing, no house, no car, no deposit, only one job that can only be raised, rely on the day after day to work overtime more pocket money.
Coincidentally, I met my wife. Frankly speaking, she didn’t look good, but she was a little yellow -faced, and she didn’t repair it. Dressed in simple. At least, my friends don’t think we can live the rest of our lives. I didn’t believe that we would be together at first.
. She is an ordinary person who cannot be in ordinary.
During the meal, we were next to each other. Her friends accidentally said. Both of you were single, maybe this joke, everyone followed. Talking about everyone, chatting, and drinking a little wine.
S singing again after meals. The box was too noisy, and I slipped out, and by the way, the cigarette was smoked. The person who was alone was the most lonely. With the effect of alcohol, my heart was really not smooth.
did not expect that she slipped out. Although she knew it, it was still embarrassing. But she opened the mouth first, “Don’t listen to them coaxing, I am a divorced person, how can I match you.” You talked with me a word.
Bet about her divorce and also brought her daughter. At that time, he fought with his ex -husband and broke up with his ex -husband. After the marriage, the ex -husband seemed to have become a person, and he was no longer as considerate as before. She worked, her ex -husband was idle at home, and went out to gamble every day.
The thought that with the birth of his daughter, with the title of his father, he would make him renewed, but unfortunately, not only did he not restore his husband. Instead, it was intensified and disliked her to give birth to her daughter. I have been selling my daughter to sell it. It may be the nature of a woman, but the mother is strong. When she wants to protect her daughter, when her daughter is two years old, she finally proposed a divorce.
The moon that night was particularly round, and then we left contact information with each other. Perhaps it is polite, maybe for sympathy.
Occasionally everyone greets each other, contacted each other, all staying in the cold and warm. One day she left a message to me, hoping to let me help. Because the rental house she lives is a residential house, the rent of that one is very cheap, but the crowd is very chaotic.
is not as safe as the community. She invited me to help me go to the place where she lived occasionally. This will give the people next to the people.
I am happy to help her this little busy, because I have nothing to do with time. Going to her can still get the meal she made. I never cook. Fast food and instant noodles are my life, and my room has no cooking.
although her room was very simple, she packed cleanly inside, and it felt neat but not losing home. The rice she made is also delicious. Maybe she hasn’t eaten the rice made at home for a long time, and she feels like eating her mother.
This time passed quickly, and in the blink of an eye, the mother was sick at home, and it was already the advanced gastric cancer when it was found out. For so many years, I never knew how much grievances they suffered and how much they were suffered. The first time I felt helpless. At this time, she stepped forward and accompanied me to many hospitals to find a lot of doctors.
I know that my mother’s biggest wish is to see me getting married and having children, but I have always been willful, because I am still young, my mother is, dad, I have nothing to worry about. The day before going home, I proposed to her. There was no ceremony, but I went out for a meal. In that small restaurant, I asked her, can we be together? Go home tomorrow, I will buy the tickets for you.
It will not be wronged in the future. I know that it is not good at this time. You also know that my mother does not have much time now. I don’t want her to regret it, but I can’t be wronged. If you are willing, let my mother walk happily. She didn’t speak, and after a while, she said, we will go back by train tomorrow. In this way, the two of us began.
In her company, the mother died, the child was born, and now we are still together, there is no mountain alliance oath, only every bit in life, I believe we will walk happily, Essence
So, the right time meets the right person, maybe it is love.
I Happiness is this simple.
In the right person, it is likely that you can’t change the wrong self. Welcome to pay attention to the amateur scholar of the WeChat public account of the same name.
Divorce, no matter what causes, is unsatisfactory in life.
If your psychology is not strong enough and healthy, you will be trapped in the negative emotions of pain and inferiority, and even make your mentality of men closed and radical. Or you will no longer believe in love because of the failure of marriage, and then play life.
and if you can be reborn in Nirvana, divorce will become a valuable experience of your life, which will make you more mature and charming. . “
It back to your question: Why can you get married better? I think you may have done the following three aspects (or the following three steps).
It first, completely break.
If you take the initiative to divorce and go away, then the first thing you have to do is to accept the fact that the marriage is already disintegrated. You need to completely clean up all the tastes and traces left by your ex -husband in your life.
In you can even indulge in your emotions as soon as possible (just finding a man to indulge a man to indulge in the best option, but it is not the best option, and you will definitely regret it. To.
How you can’t get out for a while, you must stabilize your mind and transfer the unwilling and angry emotions to a more meaningful thing. In particular, it should be noted: abandoning any idea of trying to recover or revenge, because it is meaningless and harmful to others.
It, thorough reflection.
After a period of emotional adjustment, you may be able to calm down to examine your problems in the previous marriage.
The at this time, what you need to consider is how much your love (family), friendship and self -cultivation account for each of your life.
If you put 80%of the attention on the so -called “husband and husband”, then you need to reflect: Where is your self? If you put 80%of your energy on “Enjoy yourself”, then you need to reflect: Why do he love you?
Actually, these two problems involve your role in your family? Whether your role has been recognized, appreciated, and respected.
Third, thorough rebirth
Chomatically reflected, you revised your marriage (family) concept, you re -assigned the proportion of love, friendship, and self -cultivation in your life.
You starts to work seriously and interact with friends. In particular, the charging plan that you always want to do and not do (really have no time?).
You re -ignited the flames of your heart, the enthusiasm and longing for a better life make you look new from the inside out.
The most meaningful thing is that you have a more objective awareness of yourself. You know clearly: what you want most, what you can give each other, what role you will play in the next relationship, and work hard to improve yourself.
At this time, you can let go of your hands and feet to find “encounter”, because you will “get better”.
Consulting marriage and love issues, welcome to follow WeChat public account: Zhou Xiaopeng Emotional Training Camp WeChat: AIWM-3321
Divorce also has the power to pursue happiness, and women who can marry better and better.
This is not to degrade those who have been remarried badly, but objective facts.
In round, when she first entered the society, she encountered a man who would be very pleased with her, and the two loved to die. In order to marry him, she did not listen to the persuasion of her parents. She ran to his hometown with him. After she went, she found that she had the problem of marriage. At first, she broke up with her parents, and now she has a bad face to tell misfortunes.
I. After she was beaten by her husband again, she ran home with some money, and she couldn’t stand it. After seeing her bruises on her, her parents cried straight, and she lived in her mother’s house. Her husband found it, and his parents just asked him to divorce.
After divorce, she found a man with his son as a husband.
The discipline of her child as her own, but her husband was distressed and did not allow her to say that the child was not.
In the communication between two people, she knew that her husband just wanted her to treat her son as a biological love without her discipline.
After a year of stumbling year, she settled her mentality. Although she couldn’t do it, she was done as a stepmother’s ability to do what others thought.
Now she remarried for 5 years and gave birth to a daughter, and she lived happily with her husband.
Life is realistic. Don’t have too high expectations for others, correct your mentality, your thoughts must match your strength, don’t delusional who will share your misfortune. The relationship between people is mutually mutual, and the rituals are exchanged. If you pay, you will harvest.
渐 In this era of divorce, more and more women have divorced around. When love is reshuffled, it is good enough, and of course it will “get married and better.”
Today, society, advocating women’s independence, equality between men and women, and a wide range of cognition. The ability to withstand is a lot high. Divorce is indeed a major trauma for them, but there are really many people who regain love.
The two female classmates were in Zhang Luo’s second marriage some time ago, and married a boy who had never had a history of marriage, and now it seems that she “gets better and better.” Of course, after I also met someone I knew, I couldn’t find the marriage I wanted again, so I was so lonely.
Slowly, it is found that those girls who get married and get better after divorce have a few common characteristics.
The first, once divorced, it is particularly thorough.
Once divorced, it is thoroughly divorced. Adjust your emotions as soon as possible not to waste time and find your own direction.
, after divorce, make yourself more beautiful.
After a particularly big heart trauma, many people will feel that they can’t live this hurdle, don’t care about themselves, and have no intention to make themselves beautiful. But I found that those women who can find themselves after divorce are really getting better and better. This stage is the best stage to show personal charm. Use some time to learn makeup, beauty, practice yoga, and study, which can not only improve personal cultivation, but also have a new circle of friends. It can also make life more fulfilling. After a long time, I gradually walked out of the haze, optimistic, and faced every day happily, and began to have confidence to do what I like. Slowly find his Ruyi Langjun.
Third, after divorce, you understand the various things of life deeper.
Because of the baptism of suffering, I have a re -understanding of the next marriage. Marriage is not dependent, not to pin his life on another person. Everyone is an independent individual, and it is necessary to maintain an independent personality in marriage, support each other, and grow together to grow together for a long time.
So it is not surprising that they quickly found Ruyi Langjun, because they were all charming women in life, but the previous lover was not suitable, so when love re -reshuffle, they were good enough, of course, of course, of course, of course, of course It will “get married better”. N